Be sure to take everyones advice, or you might get a spanking like me, LOL!
I was having the same problem, lagging like shit, couldnt boost past 15psi, and wouldnt get that till near red line...
I was telling IdealSupra that I had a lag monster and I hated it and cried like a bitch: and he said, wait till you get boost on it, it wont be laggy... He also mentioned it was my wastegate and its spring... *THERE JAY! PROPS FOR YOU!*
Anyway, I got my hands on a TiAL 38mm waste gate with a 9psi spring, and NOW I can hit 21 pounds of boost by 4000rpms...
What kind of wastegate are you using? How big is the A/R on yur turbine?
And I agree with many others here: DONT LET ANYONE TEST DRIVE YOUR RIDE! EVAR!