UPDATE!!! so far great news!! got the new water pump on...refilled with coolant, i drained all the old oil out, it looked green, it wasnt really mixed or anything, no white milky stuff, just oil and coolant together, so as i drained that i was slowly pouring more oil in as it drianed to help clean it out, then closed the pan back up, filled with fresh oil,, primed and turned the car on.. it idled better than it ever has, that was the first good sign.. second i drove the car to town which is like 7miles away, went to a car wash, washed the car, looked under the oil cap and NO COOLANT!! yay.. so far theres no coolant in the oil, but i'll keep an eye on it,, also got my dash lights problem fixed,, my dad was following me and said my tail lights were out,, so i checked the tail fuse, it was blown, i replaced it and it fixed the dash lights to?? wierd, but i was so happy!! so now just waiting to see if coolant comes back under the oil cap..