Lowe's carries metric bolts(even in stainless, iirc), and yes, to much silicone is a bad thing(makes a nasty mess). It only needs to be in the corners specified in the manual, like AJ said.
Oh yeah, and with a bolt or cap screw(not the stocks phillips head screw), you can put A drop of red locktite on the tip of the bolt threads to keep it from vibrating loose over time. One drop is enough, more is unnecessary. My valve covers don't leak. I did this when I did the head gasket 2+ years ago, and did it again when I had the covers off around 6 months ago. Don't over tighten the bolts, either. Best to put them in with a 1/4" ratchet, and just snugged. They're easy to break, or worse, strip the aluminum head...