Alphabet soup translation:
SAFC: Apexi additional fuel controller. A piggyback computer for adjusting the AFM signal. (Yes, if you have this, you don't really need the Lexus AFM to run larger injectors, since it will alter the AFM signal by itself.) I don't think that this is needed in order to run the Lexus/550 mod myself, certainly not while you're still running a stock turbo. The whole point of the Lexus/550 mod in the first place it to raise fuel cut without the need for piggyback computers.
AFPR: Adjustable Fuel Pressure Regulator. Allows you to alter your mixture a little by changing base fuel pressure. Typical installs also eliminate the "J" tube restriction, thus allowing for higher fuel pressures at elevated boost. This is a good idea, but again, I don't think that this is needed in the range where the stock turbo operates.
AFR Gauge: Air/Fuel Ratio gauge. This pretty much has to be a wideband in order to be useful. Running lean is your enemy, which is why a wideband is recommended by most everyone. Myself, I don't think that you need one until you have something with which to tune the car. With the 550cc injectors, and Lexus AFM, you're running everything as if it were stock. The stock Toyota tuning is very conservative, and quite safe at anything that the stock turbo is going to push without grenading itself.
MAF: Mass Air Flow. Take as a synonym with AFM (Air Flow Meter). There are technical differences between the two, but in the case of these cars, we're talking about the same thing.
For the purposes of my opinions, the stock turbo isn't helping things past about 13, MAYBE 14 PSI positive manifold pressure. At this level of boost, just make sure that you have good 550cc injectors (reputable new buy and/or cleaned and flow tested injectors) and that your fuel pump is healthy. This will get you past the stock fuel cut restrictions, and I believe that this can be done without the need for additional fuel control or monitoring safely. Naturally, you will be increasing the stresses on the engine, so if there are any below-the-surface issues with your 20+ year old 7M-GTE, expect them to come to light in short order.
As soon as you are dealing with an upgraded turbo, things start to change. Increased boost levels now will require better fuel supply, so that means fuel pump and fuel pressure regulator. Actually, even the same 13PSI at the manifold might require this, since it's likely that there will actually be more air at the same pressure. I still maintain that the wideband AFR is something that should come with a method of actually tuning the AFRs, and the Lexus AFM itself isn't it.
Making power combined with ignorance is a short trip to having a boat anchor under your hood. For now, the list that AbsoluteSpeed gave you is a good place to start, and will probably get you another 50 ponies to the ground on cheap boost control.