Hey man,
Unfortunately you haven't found any solid info because your setup potential is wide open... Every question you have revolves around the answer to your first question... Which is "what setup should you go with?"... Further more, what is the EXACT equipment you plan to run...? There are so many models out there that suit so many purposes... You can power a single 10" sub from one series with 200 solid watts on a properly tuned, good amp in a well tuned enclosure and blow the hell out of people running three 15s on 1000 watts... This is not an exageration either (step into my Solara and I'll show you what a pair of properly powered 12"s can do, even in a boat of a car... I hit just over 148db with a MODERATELY powered dual 12" setup in my Celica coupe that I could drive down the street after the show and listen to any music clean and flawlessly)...
As for your setups mentioned, the ONLY one of the three setups that could REASONABLY get you good results is the dual 12 setup... If you get different sized subs, they may actually conflict with each other depending on how they are set up... There are ways around this (more complex crossover setups and "tuned" mounting locations), but I also think you're WAAAAAAAY over estimating your needs for this vehicle to be able to shatter your rear hatch window, loosen or warp body panels and cause some nasty leaks... let alone "show off"...
For your questions...
First, IMHO "thin mount" and "quality sub" contradict each other... In the past 12+ years I've been running in sound offs and other audio competitions I have NEVER heard a shallow mount that I liked... I do realize that technology is improving, and there are a few recent models that have come out that may stand potential (JL for example), but I'd still advise going for a good quality "regular sized" sub that is able to utilize modest air space...
Second, as I stated above, your amp of choice depends on what you wind up running...
Third, if you plan to run "serious" power, you're gonna have to do a LOT more than just a battery in these cars... You'll need a new alternator, battery and wiring, along with A LOT of sound deadening (no matter how loud your system is, you won't impress many people with your body paneling resonating and rattling). Your hatch is another issue... I don't know what you can do within reason to secure it down and keep it from flopping around... lots of duct tape?
Now, things to consider... If you want to be a "thumper", you can surely buy a crappy over-powered "burping" amp from makes such as Earthquake, Hi-Fonics, SPL, Power Acoustik etc... and a pair of high excursion 12" subs and hit 150+db in 1 second increments all day long... and your music will sound like horses ass... If you want quality power that makes your innards jiggle yet still sounds good when listening to your music you'll have to compromise (for simplicity, consider SQ and SPL to be polar opposits... while it's not really THAT extreme, generally the more the equipment is aimed at achieving high sound pressures, the less it's aimed at achieving sound quality, and vice versa...)
So answer my questions now...
What do you really want? What is your purpose with this? Is it ONLY to knock shit off your friends walls and annoy the hell out of people 3 blocks away, or do you want something loud and efficient? Keep in mind dude, you WILL hurt your car (and yourself) with a couple high powered 12"s over time (or even a single solid 10" or 12"), so don't understimate the power of a proper setup, even if it doesn't consist of 3 15" subs with huge power...
Also keep in mind that generally larger surface subwoofers have more trouble keeping up with quicker beats... 8"-12" subs are generally the best range for rock, while 10"-15" are generally the best for hip hop and other bassier music... So 12" would probably be a good compromise (I live by 12"s for that reason).
Anyhow dude, I think a pair of 12"s would be far more than sufficient to achieve your goals of extremely loud yet tolerable with rock and hip hop on a daily basis for this car... Hell, you could even go with a single JL 12W7 in a properly tuned ported enclosure and power it with a quality amp capable of around 1000W continuous at 4Ohms and save a bit of space, complexity and even power (over your original 3 sub concepts)... I GUARANTEE you will be more than happy.
Hit me with some more info and we'll figure things out...
-James