socc924 said:
Now heres the deal... I live with my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years while im down here in phili going to school. I have slowly been realizing how nasty and selfish of a person she can be. I could go on and on about this, but bottom line is that I cant see a happy future with her. She is just miserable and wont change. I know she wont because we have talked about it and tried to work at it but nothing changes.
Heres the hard part though. breaking up would probably destroy her and I definatly dont wanna see her hurt. I also would have to figure out where to live while im at school and possibly transfer schools. I just feel like it would dissapoint alot of people like my parents who realy like her.
Im just so confused and torn.
hrm..i didnt read any of the replies yet..so meh, my post might be the same as others.
dont be a pussy dude. You dont see a future with her, you dont like the person she is, you dont wanna be with her. DONT BE WITH HER. Destroy her my ass..ive dealt with stalkers, post relationship psychopaths, etc. etc. etc. and they ALL eventually move on.
Break up with the bitch, dont talk to her afterwards...talking to her is like hitting reset on a playstation..u just start over, shell say the i miss you rigamarole typical female bullshit etc. etc. etc.
if time heals..give her time..LOTS OF TIME. meaning dont talk to her ass, let time heal her own fuckin wounds and move the hell on.
If she kills herself..fuck it. Her fault...if it was yours, it would be considered a Homocide, not a Suicide.
you only have one life dude..and time doesnt wait for you to make your move..so stop wasting time
signed -Mash King- :biggrinki