While I'm with Aaron on the possible cause (a few months ago I repaired a car that had the same symptoms with the same cause) if I were you I'd test it first. A quick way of doing that is to jump the FP terminal in the diagnostic block and drive the car. If the problem remains it's not the relay. That said see isnms's post in the General Section on delayed cranking for the standard Bosch relay pinout. See the online EWD for wiring. Bosch will do the job but since so many people jump them you could probably get a factory relay cheap in the WTB section. I MacGyvered the one I fixed with a spring from a ball point pen. Not something I'd do on my own car but last I heard it was still working fine. I'd test it first though. From what I've read your car is heavily modded and it could be lots of other things.