I had my engine built by a pro who was recommended by a very good friend of mine, who himself is a top notch mechanic.
This friend of mine has built 8 second dragsters and blah, blah, blah. Point is, he knows his shit. Currently he has a massively modified jeep....the motor in his jeep was built by the same person who did mine.
Background aside; the hour we had my new engine running my friend and I took it for a ride. I was babying it like it was going to break in half. Then he took it for a spin.
1st gear he floored it till it broke traction at around 5000rpm. 2nd gear broke traction at about 6000rpm and he kept it pinned into third. The whole time this is happenning I'm yelling at him to stop so I can lay a beating on him.
Before I could he said "there, everything should be nicely seated, from this point on break it in gently." Well, that was almost 4 years ago and although I've had issues with my car from time to time, that engine has remained solid.
I did the mhg retorque as recommended, and haven't had a single problem.
I won't say what method is right or wrong here, but that was my experience (long story sorta, I just felt like writing), so take it for what you will. It worked for me.