i haven't read through all the theads so excuse if it's a duplicate....... but, I have ran into the same problem and noticed that the stock studs only seat 8mm into the head, where there is 20mm of depth, so you can chase the threads and then install studs that are longer.... just make sure they are not too long as to avoid bottoming them out. This usually works.... the other trick is to torque the exhaust manifold nuts in stages as the problem seems to be caused by slightly warped exhaust manifolds or corrosion.