A girl thread once again

Finnon

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So theres this lass who works in my local pub, called Donna. I think most of my mates from there know i kinda think she is well fit. So one of them went and said last night that i was besoted with her. (btw she has a bf). Anyway. i was in the toilet at the time and i could hear her shoutin my name. i wondered wtf went outside and she had went intio the other room. so tonight i was in and they were keep sayin to her "donna heres Paul" and "he is besoted wif ya" and other such shit.

so the bar lasses weere cleanin up at the end of the night and rthey were still takin the pis and she is like shut up and hides lol. and now she is keep tellin me to stop blushin when she talks to me. and all the other staff are rippin me about it aswell. man ma heads done in lol i didnt want her to know as she has a bf but i guess she knows now so what do u guys sugest as the best way forward?

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RHDMK3

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Well I personally am not one for stealing another mans woman but.., you have 3 options the way I see it. 1: Do nothing, and maintain the status quo. 2: Kick her bloke's ass and "steal" the woman. or 3: Tell her exactly how ya feel and see if maybe you two could do something on the low.
 

Finnon

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i wudnt steal his bird. but, a few of my mates refer to her when there talkin to me as "your future wife" or "your girlfriend" man it does ma head in. one of ma mates reakons that if im not wif her by cristmas im doin somethin mega wrong
 

RHDMK3

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Just bitch slap, either verbally or physically, your mates and tell them to keep their mouths shut! But then again they are your mates and its their job to give you shit about stuff like this. So I would just tell her how you feel either face to face or in a letter or something like that. Who know's maybe she doesnt like her man and maybe she like's you. No point in staying in a relationship that your not happy in right?
 

Finnon

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RHDMK3 said:
Just bitch slap, either verbally or physically, your mates and tell them to keep their mouths shut! But then again they are your mates and its their job to give you shit about stuff like this. So I would just tell her how you feel either face to face or in a letter or something like that. Who know's maybe she doesnt like her man and maybe she like's you. No point in staying in a relationship that your not happy in right?
well i kinda did a good going bright red impression when she came close to me tonight. they encouraged it obviously. she wouldnt come near our table either. man im kinda pissed wit them but i supose i cant really say anything to them
 

RHDMK3

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They're your mates bro. I'am sure you've done the same thing to at least one of them at some point or another. They probably mean well. She knows that you obviously like her. If she doesnt she is bright as a burnt bulb! She may be just waiting for you to talk to her. I say man up and just go talk to her. No harm in that right?
 

fandffan

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Man reading reading British dialog when tired is trippy.

But yeah try and confront her. She's obviously embarrased of the situation meaning she probably also likes you. Be casual about it and ask her why she won't come near you guys. Then from her response go from there. You'll do fine. Just be sure to be sobber when this is done.