'89 are grey plug, BUT they are the same pinout as the earlier yellow plug harnesses.
My '89NA was grey plug. I popped in an '87 7M-GTE harness and ECU. It plugged right in, except for the ABS harness, which was easy enough to adapt. I kept the 1989 ABS brain and actuator.
So under my dash, I've got the grey chassis harness plugged straight into a yellow ECU harness. All of my gauges work (With the tach driver board changed out)
If you have a 1989 engine which you are dropping into a 1990 car, I believe that the 1990 harness will connect to the engine in most cases. I also believe that you could use most of the 1989 accessories in the 1990 car, but you'd have to check case by case.
If you have a 1990 engine and harness and are trying to install it in a 1989 chassis, I suggest that you reconsider. Again, the 1989 harness should connect to the 1990 engine in the vast majority of the cases.