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My advice? Steer clear of the young mom's who are cheating on someone. There are plenty of single, childless, boyfriend-less chicks out there who are DTF too. The one you're dealing with sounds like a plain old ho. Nobody likes a ho.
THIS.

Don't waste your time on something that can come back to be as big of a pain in the ass as this chick could be; already has a current boyfriend and MULTIPLE kids, fuck that (figuritively of course). If you just want to get your dick wet and gain some confidence just go find a escort on craigslist or some shit, no bullshit and kids involved.

If you're still too stubborn and stupid to avoid this potential clusterfuck atleast do yourself the favor of paying attention to this:

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My advice? Don't liquor her up too much so she can't cry rape later, and wear a rubber or two or three and bring backup rubbers. She has kidS plural, and she's about your age? Yeah. Don't get roped into that mess.
Also baring that she has kids and a boyfriend and you still think this is a good idea, hit it and quit it. Anything besides a one night stand with this chick is going to increase your likelyhood of getting roped into that shituation exponentially especially since you work with her.
 

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nah show us what you know :D and tell us your strategy for getting them females
Find one that isn't batshit crazy (a mom) already? I'm all for girls finding a guy that treats them with respect (but they have to want that for themselves), so no way in hell can I condone you pursuing this. Even in my backwoods town, there is plenty of poon to go around without stepping over any lines.

What I'm getting at is that karma can be a bitch sometimes. I'd be looking for a door, at the very least until she does NOT have a boyfriend. Once she's grown up enough to take care of her own issues at home, then feel free to have fun, so long as she understands that is all this is.
 

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Find one that isn't batshit crazy (a mom) already? I'm all for girls finding a guy that treats them with respect (but they have to want that for themselves), so no way in hell can I condone you pursuing this. Even in my backwoods town, there is plenty of poon to go around without stepping over any lines.

What I'm getting at is that karma can be a bitch sometimes. I'd be looking for a door, at the very least until she does NOT have a boyfriend. Once she's grown up enough to take care of her own issues at home, then feel free to have fun, so long as she understands that is all this is.
well i have bad news/good news i guess, we did hang out but nothing ended up happening mainly because one of my close friends shared a horror story with me about a situation he got into like this and pretty much begged me to RUN and RUN FAST lol he said pretty much what everyone else said wait for her to break it with her man (which may be soon) or find some puss some where else, we still chat though and sometimes she makes it very hard VERY HARD to control myself, she seems like a good kid but those 2 kids really has me wondering but that is not a subject i will ever discuss with her.
 

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Seriously, what's wrong with a fuck buddy? Just let her know that it's just about sex, and that's it. The minute she gets emotional it's over. You don't want her to break up with her boyfriend. Let him deal with her crazy cheating ass. This is not the kind of girl you want a relationship with. BTW, do you even have your own place? I imagine you don't cause if you did this would have already happened. I'm just saying.
 

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Want advice from a noob to the forum? Don't do it man women are just as scandalous as men. Its cool that you like her and all but i bet if you eventually find someone else those feelings will generally go away. If you need more in depth advice feel free to pm me i dont mind shit its what i go to school for.
 

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Want advice from a noob to the forum? Don't do it man women are just as scandalous as men. Its cool that you like her and all but i bet if you eventually find someone else those feelings will generally go away. If you need more in depth advice feel free to pm me i dont mind shit its what i go to school for.
funny you say that man, i started play flirting with this chick out of boredom in January because another cutie i worked with who was my main focus to get was changing shifts and she was even single and had no kids but like a dummy i let her slip away. Once she left i focused all my attention on this current girl and honestly i never had the intention to get it this far but some how or another she just became extremely attractive in my mind and i just wanted her BAD and kind of still do, i am a sucker for pretty eyes and she has some stunning eyes lol some of the biggest greenest eyes i have ever seen. I think i am going to get on board with everyone else and drop this before i catch feelings because i found myself thinking about her all day today and was like o shit this is not good haha so yea imma cut this shit cold turkey, sucks ass i work with her though.
 

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funny you say that man, i started play flirting with this chick out of boredom in January because another cutie i worked with who was my main focus to get was changing shifts and she was even single and had no kids but like a dummy i let her slip away. Once she left i focused all my attention on this current girl and honestly i never had the intention to get it this far but some how or another she just became extremely attractive in my mind and i just wanted her BAD and kind of still do, i am a sucker for pretty eyes and she has some stunning eyes lol some of the biggest greenest eyes i have ever seen. I think i am going to get on board with everyone else and drop this before i catch feelings because i found myself thinking about her all day today and was like o shit this is not good haha so yea imma cut this shit cold turkey, sucks ass i work with her though.
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funny you say that man, i started play flirting with this chick out of boredom in January because another cutie i worked with who was my main focus to get was changing shifts and she was even single and had no kids but like a dummy i let her slip away. Once she left i focused all my attention on this current girl and honestly i never had the intention to get it this far but some how or another she just became extremely attractive in my mind and i just wanted her BAD and kind of still do, i am a sucker for pretty eyes and she has some stunning eyes lol some of the biggest greenest eyes i have ever seen. I think i am going to get on board with everyone else and drop this before i catch feelings because i found myself thinking about her all day today and was like o shit this is not good haha so yea imma cut this shit cold turkey, sucks ass i work with her though.
hmmm yeah sounds to me like a classic case of i gotta have it. Basically she is gonna consume your thoughts till you see her naked or find someone else but even then its like pandora's box you just gotta open it to see what its like. A lot of this believe it or not comes from your romantic feelings for her (In this case romantic doesn't necessarily mean relationship or date but can encompass lust as well) because of either her being your only option available at the time or whatever you are having the tendency to ignore her faults for the most part and focus a lot of attention on things that make her interesting to you. Forgive my vulgarity but a lot of these feelings would not be there if you were to blow a load or actually have another partner to spend your time with. I know it will probably suck cutting ties with her but i can almost certainly guarantee that if a sexual encounter were to happen with this girl you would more than likely feel guilt, shame or a combination of the two especially when the consequences of your actions stop being a fantasy and start becoming a reality. I mean you can try to be a fuck em and leave them kind of guy but i get a gut feeling reading your story you might not be that type.
 

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hmmm yeah sounds to me like a classic case of i gotta have it. Basically she is gonna consume your thoughts till you see her naked or find someone else but even then its like pandora's box you just gotta open it to see what its like. A lot of this believe it or not comes from your romantic feelings for her (In this case romantic doesn't necessarily mean relationship or date but can encompass lust as well) because of either her being your only option available at the time or whatever you are having the tendency to ignore her faults for the most part and focus a lot of attention on things that make her interesting to you. Forgive my vulgarity but a lot of these feelings would not be there if you were to blow a load or actually have another partner to spend your time with. I know it will probably suck cutting ties with her but i can almost certainly guarantee that if a sexual encounter were to happen with this girl you would more than likely feel guilt, shame or a combination of the two especially when the consequences of your actions stop being a fantasy and start becoming a reality. I mean you can try to be a fuck em and leave them kind of guy but i get a gut feeling reading your story you might not be that type.
she probably know's this and is enjoying every minute of my torture haha women can be cruel but yea i never really saw myself as a one night stand guy, not saying i have not done it once or twice :D
 

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she probably know's this and is enjoying every minute of my torture haha women can be cruel but yea i never really saw myself as a one night stand guy, not saying i have not done it once or twice :D
Yes sir they can but over time you can get the hang of it its all about being the perfect mix of sweet guy and asshole...
 

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So fucking a whore who is DTF and leaving them is being an asshole?
Geez, you guys sould like women. Talking about romance, guilt, shame, lust, and all of these other feelings for this DTF tramp. Well, if you want a relationship then look for that first girl that showed you interest and start a relationship with her. Don't come in here talking about this DTF chick and her tits and all. Got us old married men all excited about the chase and some strange. Cock tease.
 

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......Once she left i focused all my attention on this current girl and honestly i never had the intention to get it this far but some how or another she just became extremely attractive in my mind and i just wanted her BAD and kind of still do......I think i am going to get on board with everyone else and drop this before i catch feelings because i found myself thinking about her all day today and was like o shit this is not good haha so yea imma cut this shit cold turkey, sucks ass i work with her though.
Depends on what feelings you are having: if you find yourself thinking about her all day and you are thinking "man, I wish I was with her and kinda want to meet her kids", then RUN AWAY!
However, if you are thinking about her all day and the thoughts are "God DAMN I want to hit that!", then you should tap that ass ;)
 

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Well, if you want a relationship then look for that first girl that showed you interest and start a relationship with her.
I agree. Just because you don't work on the same shift anymore doesn't mean you can't pursue her... My old lady and I started dating right around the same time our crew was split up and reorganized. In the long run, it's probably best to not date coworkers on the same shift... at least if it doesn't work out, things aren't awkward in the least at work. ;)

Don't come in here talking about this DTF chick and her tits and all. Got us old married men all excited about the chase and some strange. Cock tease.
Sounds like someone just punched a wall because he is SO DAMNED ANGRY!!!! :p
 

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This is a little embarrassing so poke all the fun you want lol............... i am 21 and honestly pretty bad with the opposite sex when it comes to romancing, flirting, giving cute compliments. I work with this girl who i have had a crush on since i seen her, and well she is pretty much down to fuck but she is waiting on me to say something,i guess she wants me to tell her i like her? here is where i need advice! what the hell am i exactly supposed to say? i mean i don't just come right out and say it do i? the worst part is she has a bf and kids but there having problems so i guess she is sick of it but i have never been in this type of situation before and i am lost. I am not expecting a relationship or anything but just someone to have fun with while i am still young, pretty sure she is looking for the same thing.
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well start off with "hey i was wondering... would you like to hang out (I say kick it) sometime. if she says yes.. Awwww yeaaaaaaaa! DO NO take her out to the movies. your going to literally sit there & not talk for like an hour & a half..
Take her out, be a flirt.. tickle her. find a right time to give her a kiss don't be shy man. after you guys kiss you can ask if she wants to kick it some other time. & then you ask her if she wants to watch movies at your place...
this has worked countless times for me...needless to say.. i never finished watching a movie :naughty:

I just read the parts where she has kids & a man?? THE FUCK?
RUUUUUN BROOO!!!

The advice above still stands for single females with NO KIDS. :)
 

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I'm not gonna read 8 pages to not find out if you hit it or not. Well?
nah ended it on a good note with her and almost as soon as i ended it with her i met this other girl who i am in a relationship with now.NO KIDS! with this one btw lol